There is an imaginary that any woman who works in a sex-related field, whether she is an escort, porn actress, stripper, etc., inexorably has to be a sexopath. Although it cannot be generalized, physiologically it can be seen that men have a much faster primary arousal than women. This means that while the visual is usually sufficient for them, many more factors and more prolonged in time are necessary for them. This is a first indication that maybe the myth of considering escorts as nymphomaniacs does not fit reality.
One of the factors that often fuels the idea of promiscuity among sex workers is their expertise in giving the customer what the customer is looking for. Hardly a clothes salesman will tell us that a t-shirt makes us look fat, and a butcher has never been seen recommending veganism. Escorts, like any other worker, know their clientele better than anyone else. The balance between accepting the game and enjoying it, but at the same time not being naive, is one of the challenges that are often not overcome by those who consume paid sex.
There are many escorts who find their work heavy, depressing, and even cause them to lose sexual desire with their partners. Others take it as naturally as if they were hairdressers, and of course there are also those who fully enjoy their paid encounters (they are the minority). If we spin fine we will realize that it is no different from any other activity. Finally, it is the personality of each one that ends up determining the degree of enjoyment.
We often have the fantasy of imagining pleasurable situations that last constantly in time. This is the case of dreaming that every day we eat milanesas, or vitel toné, or sushi. In practice, any routine behavior, no matter how pleasant it may be, ends up generating tiredness and boredom. Men make the fallacious parallelism of thinking that it would be pleasant, and even desirable, to have sex with 3 or 4 women three or four times a day. Bearing in mind that it is not the escort who decides the appearance and personality of her clients, it is not worth thinking about Olivia Wilde or Kendra Lust as clients.
Debunking myths and understanding the secrets of the people we relate to is key to bonding in a fuller and more respectful way. Escorts have the ability to show us a world of fantasy, to be the hosts of pleasure itself. Valuing and pondering that magic is also part of the experience.
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